Please post your thoughts here.

I started to compose my thoughts, as to “what makes me happy” and every time I’d develop the ‘body’ of my reply it would go something like this. …and that secure feeling…and that makes me secure knowing… So I would venture to say that I need to have a sense of Security to allow a feeling of happiness to surface. I would appreciate your comment on this.

ANSWERS
What makes me happy?

When I share happy feelings with others. That makes me really happy.
A beautiful flower makes me happy.
To send out love straight from my heart makes me happy, especially when there is a respond, a smile, an understanding, joy
The help from friends in spirit makes me happy.

I feel the angels and great teachers helping us from inside out and from outside in. That consciousness is a constant happiness

I’m, when connected with spirit always a happy person.

I’m sad or depressed when I think nobody understands me. (that’s was my old pain) When people want to go into war and kill for peace. That sort of thinking in the world makes me really unhappy. How I overcome my negative feelings? To accept, in the first place, the feelings and the good intention behind my sadness or depression. So I can better accept my own longing for love and wisdom. My own longing for a perfekt world. To accept the world or the other person like it is now, that helps me. Because I also understand my own perceptions. That’s another way to put it.
When I’m sad I talk to my Teachers and friends, I take all the time to reconnect. Nothing is than more important than to reconnect with spirit. Some times it takes one minute sometimes I become ill and it takes one or two days to reconnect. I know when I’m ill and talking to my Gods, I do good work for the environment I live in. Suddenly others come with good ideas or they have no longer fights with others.

My outlook in life was very dark and very light with nothing in between. Now I colour the grey field in between in beautiful colours, feelings, thoughts. So I’m turning into a positive person on all subjects of life. The well-known sentence I do what I can do, I change what I can, what I can’t change I let go (or have the confidence others will change it) All what is left is Gods work what I’m grateful for. (maybe its Gods work for 90%, so what a happiness is there to share!)

Yes, I take courses to be a more stable happy person. NLP from the heart, Spirit coaching, School of intuition, money workshops.

Eugen thanks for asking me to write down my happy life development.

I have a question back. I started an idea that is named Share your Happiness. Its no coincidence that you write me. Is it possible to translate your book about happiness in dutch and to have some parts of it on my future website? (English and dutch)

Its my intention to share the happy storys of the world on internet and also to give and implant trainings that teach others to make happy stories by transforming and giving a new spirit to everybodys life.

One Idea is to send “healing hands” over the world by professional therapist en counsellors. My first wish is to make it happen and to collect an amount of money to make this dream true.

I’m open for every idea to work on to make happiness over the world.

With loving regards,

Marleen Kragt

Well,I’m thinking that while you read this you will think something like “Wow, he definitely needs help”, anyways:

What makes you happy?

Hmm where to start, I like being evil..Funny isn’t it? I like making fun of people, I like doing things that I like to do and never look back wheter if it means causing pain to my “friends” or family members or someone close to me, they don’t matter to me, I love doing things in my own twisted way. I used to love stealing things (but I allways gave them back, strange isnt it?) I just love the adrenaline of it I used to pick pocket my friends stealing their wallets,cellphones,keys etc.. But I allways gave them back because I don’t need those things. Anyways as I’ve said earlier: I love doing things in my own twisted way.

If you are feeling sad or depressed, what thoughts or events can turn your mood into happiness, how quickly can you do that?

I don’t really get sad or angry for a long time, ussually for only like 10 maybe 20 minutes then I just forget about it and continue living on. I just play video games or listen to some music to forget about everything and just live the moment even it it’s only virtual.

What is your outlook in life? Are you a positive person? Or, are you more towards a negative person?

My outlook in life? It sucks, and then you die..Nothing more, nothings less. I think that we, people, make our own and everybody elses lifes miserable.(credit to maddox, he just explains it way better than me due to lack of my English) I think it’s a lack of dicipline. These days, politicians, the media, and even teachers are scared to say anything that might be deemed “politically incorrect”. Handicapped people are no longer handicapped, but are physically or mentally impaired. Prisoners are no longer prisoners, but are freedom inclined. Opening a door for a woman or paying for a meal can be offensive because it might imply that the she can’t do it herself. Strip clubs and pornography are not acceptable because they’re degrading to women. It’s not okay to torture convicted rapists, murderers, and child molestors because it would be cruel and unusual punishment (as opposed to what they did to the victims?). Eating meat is wrong because an animal had to die. Physically diciplining children when they start threatening lives is not okay because it’s child abuse.Kids these days get away with too much. They dye their hair, pierce their bodies, dress up like freaks, experiment with sexuality and drugs, they disregard tradition and rules, and disrespect anyone that might “cramp” their style. Sure, they’ll sit around and smoke, do drugs, and have sex while complaining about the environment, but when it comes to doing anything about it, they’re too infatuated with their image and what’s politically correct to actually change anything.

Are you taking any courses to improve your happiness???

No and I don’t think I’ll ever will. It’s usseless for me, tryied dozens of them already and they never really helped me, yes, even the Secret..

Anyways life is too short, so do whaever makes you happy.

With regards
Dima Sergeev

I think the frame of mind that keeps me positive is living in the knowledge that this moment will never happen again. So with that in mind, I view every situation as a passing gift to be treasured.